Saturday, April 27, 2013

Foul Language

On abusive language
Even if many individual expletives have lost their potency through overuse, the issue of swearing divides the nation into those who see it as the last refuge of the ignorant and linguistically indolent and those who regard it as an art form and a badge of social acceptability. Cursing has a proud heritage in England, going back to the days of Chaucer, who – unrestrained by the dead hand of the censor – sprinkled his work with obscene words such as ferte, erse, pisse, shiten, queynte, collions (testicles), and swyve, the precursor to f***, which arrived around 1500.

And although vulgarity is often associated with shipyard and factory workers, it has long had its middle-class exponents, particularly in literature. Shakespeare was an enthusiastic blasphemer – his plays containing plenty of religious obscene words such as zounds- or God's wounds- which were in common usage at the time.
Gradually, as the world became more secular, religious swear words gave way to the sexual ones that are in use today, their popularity driven, once again, by writers, such as DH Lawrence, James Joyce, Henry Miller and Dylan Thomas. Since the 1960s, rock stars have rallied to the cause, with the likes of Bob Geldof, Madonna, Liam Gallagher and Lily Allen: all doing their bit to make them more acceptable- foul language is so integral a feature of today's culture, it barely registers. Native English users may be able to bring about an effect by the right timing of those words.

On a personal level, I tell you, swearing gives a poor impression, endangers relationships and sets a bad example. On a broader level, it contributes to the dumbing down of society and can lead to violence. The reason is that swearing still offends many people, influences the way they judge your intelligence and character, heightens conflicts at home and at work, and represents a decline in civility. So stay away from using profanity and mind your words for you live in a civilized society.

See also,
http://upload.wikimedia.org/wikipedia/commons/thumb/d/dd/Seven_Dirty_Words_WBAI.jpg/220px-Seven_Dirty_Words_WBAI.jpg

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Wednesday, April 17, 2013

The Meaning of Suffering and Theological BS




bullshit meter cartoon by nakedpastor david hayward

This cartoon speaks for itself. But I have a few words to add.
After the bombing at the Boston Marathon on Monday last, as expected, the theological BS started to flow. What is even more remarkable is that every theological chunk of BS resembles the theological pronouncements of Job’s comforters. Job’s comforters and their theologizing only added to his suffering. Stupid theological statements add to ours. We should know better.
You suffer because there’s sin in your life. And even if there isn’t any sin really outstanding, you’re still not perfect. And even if you do call on God for help, the fact that you are proud prevents God from answering. And even if we don’t understand it fully, we can count on the fact that you are suffering in order to make you a better person because even though God is just he is also a God of love. Blah blah blah.
The whole point of Job, which I consider to be the most honest book about suffering, is that there is no meaning. Job never gets an answer. He never finds out why he suffered. In fact, his comforters are rebuked! Even though their theology is sound it is wrong. And Job is vindicated! He was right to claim his innocence and cry “Unfair!” because it was unfair. He never discovers the 'why'. Maybe that’s a good thing because we, the readers, know that it was just a wager between God and Satan. It was all just a game. So even the meaning is meaningless.
I think the point of Job we should walk away with is that we cannot understand suffering. If there is a meaning to it, we cannot know it. But what we can do, like Job and his comforters did, is be friends and help one another.
People suffered in Boston. We can’t understand why such things happen. But we can bring comfort and help to one another. 
As was so admirably done... Thanks.

Sunday, March 24, 2013

We're Next to None.

Rules and regulations are the checks and balances that keep some of us honest and the rest of us safe. We modify regulations in accordance with evolving science, state law, and political pressure. Regulations are openly discussed, periodically adjusted and always enforced with political will and state's sovereignty. The law of this country governs any and all who happen to be here or pass through this country.

പട്ടിണി കിടന്നു ചത്താലും ആത്മാഭിമാനം പണയം വെക്കാതിരിക്കുക എന്നതാണ് തറവാട്ടില്‍ പിറന്നവരുടെ രീതി. രാജ്യത്തിന്റെ അഭിമാനം ചോദ്യം ചെയ്യപ്പെടുമ്പോഴാണ് ഒരു ഭരണകൂടത്തിന്റെ കാര്യക്ഷമത കൂടുതല്‍ പ്രകടമാവേണ്ടത്. യു പി എ സര്‍ക്കാരും അതിന്റെ തലപ്പത്തിരിക്കുന്ന ഇന്ത്യന്‍ നാഷണല്‍ കോണ്‍ഗ്രസിന്റെ നേതാക്കന്മാരും തറവാട്ടില്‍ പിറന്നവരാണോ എന്ന് വരും ദിനങ്ങളില്‍ കണ്ടറിയാം.
ഇറ്റലിക്കാര്‍ക്ക് അവരുടെ അമ്മായി ഇവിടെയുള്ളത്കൊണ്ടാണ് ഇത്തരമൊരു ആനുകൂല്യം ലഭിച്ചതെന്ന് ഓരോ ഇന്ത്യക്കാരനും വിശ്വസിക്കാതിരിക്കണമെങ്കില്‍ ആ കൊലയാളികളെ പിടിച്ചു കൊണ്ട് വന്നേ മതിയാകൂ.
എത്ര ശക്തമായ നിലപാടുകളെടുത്താലും അന്താരാഷ്‌ട്ര സമൂഹത്തിന്റെ പിന്തുണ ഇന്ത്യയുടെ പക്ഷത്തുണ്ടാവുമെന്നതുറപ്പാണ്. ഇത്തരമൊരു പച്ചയായ കരാര്‍ ലംഘനത്തെ ലോകത്തെ ഒരു രാജ്യത്തിനും പിന്തുണക്കാനാവില്ല. ഇന്ത്യയെ സംബന്ധിച്ചിടത്തോളം ഇറ്റലി പിണങ്ങിയാല്‍ കോലോത്തെ തമ്പുരാനോട് കള്ളന്‍ കോവാലന്‍ പിണങ്ങിയ പോലാണ്.

Saturday, March 23, 2013

The Rape Myth

The leading rape myth used to be about what a woman was wearing. The twisted logic goes like this: Women who wear provocative clothing are sluts who are “asking for it.” But the feminist movement has seriously chipped at this rape myth.

Thousands of women in Muslim countries who wear the burqa and hijab and dress modestly are raped and sexually assaulted. Egypt’s Interior Ministry reports that 20,000 women and girls are raped every year. Alcohol is involved in a staggering number of sex crimes. In a national study of college students, 75% of males and 55% of females involved in date rape had been drinking or using some other drugs prior to the sexual assault.

According to a study conducted by the American National Institute on Alcohol Abuse and Alcoholism: "At least one-half of all violent crimes involve alcohol consumption by the perpetrator, or the victim, or both".

Researchers have consistently found that men who have been drinking alcohol commit approximately one-half of all sexual assaults. Depending on the sample studied and the measures used, the estimates for alcohol (ab)use among perpetrators have ranged from 34 to 74 percent. Has anybody looked into its application in cases like Suryanelli, since in India, according to the National Crime Registry, a woman is raped every 20 minutes?


Blessy comments:

hmm... gud study!! bt...

And Pramod Gopalakrishnan writes: 

Sir, Its a pleasant surprise to see U here.Reinventing U. Now retriving the campus stories days, your eloquence, stylish classes, Oscar Wildes Nightingale and the red rose.....and so .on...I am now in Kottayam, working with Malayala Manorama as Chief Sub Editor.How r U ?

An addendum ( written a few days ago):


On this post-Women's Day, for you to read: It Wasn't Bad Sex, It Wasn't a Mistake, 'It Was Rape': The film grapples with society's dark side. Jennifer Baumgardner's powerful new documentary gets eight women to describe one of the worst moments of their lives.

Baumgardner’s latest project, a 60-minute documentary titled 'It Was Rape', opens with a warning: If the movie purports to be an emotional trigger, “please take care of yourself, even if it means leaving the theater".

The reason for this heads-up is that sexual violation is an abysmally common crime. According to a 2011 report issued by the Centers for Disease Control and Prevention, one in six US women and one in seven US men have been raped at least once. These numbers make the film’s admonition especially poignant since it is likely that audience everywhere will include people for whom rape is not a theoretical issue, but a lived reality.
Baumgardner calls rape 'the feminist issue that never changes.' 

She hopes the film will nudge viewers to listen to victims’ stories without judgment or condemnation.

The following shows how law enforcement is more forceful in the west than in India. Baptist Pastor told the 17 year old girl that Jesus 

wanted them to have sex. Indiana pastor Jack Schaap exploited an underage girl's' belief in God to coerce her into sleeping with him. 


As a pastor at an Indiana megachurch, Jack Schaap persuaded a 17 year old girl to have sex with him by creepily claiming it was all part 

of God’s plan. He wanted to put her on a “better path of living,” he said, adding “that’s what we call Righteousness,” letters provided by 

prosecutors reveal. It’s all very gross, but the most disturbing God-wants-you-to-bone-me moment may have come when Schaap 

wrote, “That is exactly what Christ desires for us. He wants to marry us + become eternal lovers!” 

Schaap pleaded guilty last year to transporting his victim across state lines. Prosecutors say Schaap persuaded the church to bring her 


to his cabin in Michigan, claiming she was in an “extremely vulnerable state” that could be cured only with 'alone time' with him (and his 

penis). Prosecutors also allege that he had sex with the girl on his property in Crete, Illinois and in the First Baptist Church offices.

The underage victim, who spent her entire life in the church listening to Schaap preach three times a week, wrote that she thought he 


was the voice of God. 

“He told me to confide in him, to trust him, and he made me feel safe and comfortable around him as a man of God,” the girl wrote in 


official documents. “[Schaap] preyed on that trust and my vulnerability.”

Schaap is scheduled for sentencing in March. The Government and Assistant U.S. Attorney Jill Koster recommend he receive only ten 


years for pleading guilty before charges were filed.



Sunday, February 17, 2013

Legal Advice


The culprits in Suryanelly case can possibly raise a strong defence leading to clean acquittal and that is by claiming themselves to be mentally challenged (retarded). Those of whom we hear connected to the said case appear to meet all the requirements needed for mental retardation that can be proved with their low IQs.
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  • Deepa Seethu and Nisha George like this.

  • Nisha George According to my cognizant, to claim oneself as brutally raped by 42 men (though with or without consent is yet to be found)is a wretched situation, and once failed getting that justice and all the culprits are acquitted…….i don’t think sir, a girl or her family will come back after 17 years pointing fingers at the same person saying yes, he is one among the one who raped me. Consider their current situation and our society, they were living an isolated life in disguise.

  • Prof. Alex Odikandathil Ph.D. You must be right, Nisha. U know, I was only making a sarcastic comment. Then, the question 'with or without consent' does not arise in this case as the girl was a minor at the time of occurance. Even if she consented, it does not amount to consent in law. AND EVEN IF she was promiscuous, she should have been treated; NOT LAID.

  • Nisha George power and politics on one side and a poor family on the other side, judiciary is a witness of all these is terrifying... women should stand up, i feel sorry for Kurien's wife, who is a silent listener to all these conversation, though she know her husb...See More

  • Prof. Alex Odikandathil Ph.D. We don't have the wherewithal to investigate, the yardstick to find the truth or the authority to punish the culprit. That is why human civilization has established courts of law. The court procedure should run its full course and provide equality of justice to all the citizens, irrespective of any consideration, whatsoever. The allegation is that it did not happen in the present case.

  • Nisha George I do agree that the reason why courts are formed, but the politics ruling the judiciary is bit shameful. not sure justice is prevailing. Judges are also human beings and at situations they can be biased to on various factors including influence...

  • Prof. Alex Odikandathil Ph.D. Its a vicious cycle... politicians recruiting judges from among their ranks and files and the judges, in turn, passing verdict in favour of their mentors.. should change, must change... there has to be people's activism without allegiance to any political parties. I have to admit that I don't have any tear to shed for anybody's wife!
    Thursday at 4:28pm · Like · 1

    Gods' own country: Is it Kerala or India?
    Kerala'a Home Minister Thiruvanchoor turned down the Opposition’s demand for re-investigation into the infamous Suryanelli serial-rape Case, which is currently rocking the Congress in Kerala after 17 years. The victim, who was just about 16 years old when she was abducted and subjected to rape for over 40 days continuously, has consistently accused Rajya Sabha Deputy Chairman P.J. Kurien of having tormented her. On 31 Jan 2013, the Supreme Court set aside the verdict of the Kerala High Court which had acquitted the overwhelming majority of the 35 persons who had been found guilty by the special court, and reduced the sentence of the single accused that it found guilty.
    Kurien’s plea of alibi has been wearing thin ever since.
    Thiruvanchoor claims the government has received legal advice that there are no grounds for re-investigation. He added that the reference to ‘victim’ in the Central Government’s ordinance can either be female or male!
    Joke:
    Vayalar Ravi, a central cabinet minister from Kerala snapped at a woman TV journalist who had asked him about the controversy thus: "Have you any prior experience with Kurien?”.
    The bigger joke,
    of course, is Kerala Government’s desperation to pass legislation to ‘protect the privacy and dignity ‘ of women running precisely parallel to their desperation to protect Kurien who seems to be getting sewed tighter and tighter into the most uncomfortably ‘protective’ gunny-bag of self-proclaimed innocence.
    And the biggest joke?
    The Head of a splinter christian denomination that flourished in the name of Jesus Christ has stepped up to defend Kurien since he happens to be one of its affluent members even when a priest of the same church who was in charge of the local parish when it happened points a finger at him. The same Head had a meeting with Narendra Modi of Gujarat some time back: Who arranged it? smells anything?
    Let nobody be permitted to pervert the course of justice.AND, 

Tuesday, February 12, 2013

Rape Vs, Child prostitution


What many fail to understand in connection with the recent episode is that the Indian Penal Code - Sections 21, 23 & 25 read with sections 319, 320, 321, 322, 339, 340, 361, 366, 366-A, 372, 373, & 376 - all specifically provide for stern action against adult perpetrators who aid, abet or subject children to prostitution and hence the law does not view it lesser in degree than rape. Then what's the point in shouting against Justice Basant?

Not many questions:

1. In a case where the accused doesn't plead guilty and the case goes on trial, on whom does the onus of proof rest so as to establish the innocence of the accused?
2. Is it the prosecution's duty to prove alibi as claimed by an accused?
3. Oommen Chandy (CM) and Thiruvanchoor (HM) defended Kurien by saying that the abused girl has nothing to say new.
Is that not the strongest point to prove that the Suryanelli girl is speaking truth?
(Its customary for defence lawyers to get witnesses tell different versions of the same incident by tactful cross- examination to disprove their statements and to cast doubt on their character. Here she is telling the same thing again and again which tantamounts to truth in my legal disposition. Who else is competent to say what happened to her better than she herself)?
4. What is Antony's take on this since he was the then CM?
5. Why did two left governments prefer to sleep on this issue when they were in power?
6. To what extent does the balance swing in favour of the girl due to the revelations in the Special Proseutor's (Adv. Janardana Kurup) autobiography?
7. Heard the dictum: "Justice delayed is justice denied?"
An introspection is good.
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